Last night it ticked over to 9 PM.
Both boys were on Fortnite.
They had been playing from about 7, so a good 2 hours.
I went into FamilyZone and moved both devices onto “Sleep” mode…
Sam did ok with it…
Hamish, however, did not cope so well…
He had been sick for the previous 3 days and I did not give them any warning that Fortnite was about to stop.
I basically induced a rapid exit out of the game world, back into this reality.
He was not a happy camper.
Suddenly he was angry and distressed.
He was not happy about brushing his teeth.
He was not happy about going to bed.
Even once I got him into bed, he could not sleep.
He had his “angry breathing” going on.
I gave him a back rub.
Got him a glass of water.
I ended up jumping into bed to comfort him and at least 30 minutes of moderately challenging parenting later, he fell asleep…
I took from this that this could have been handled better.
I should have set the expectations at the beginning of the session…
“You can play tonight, but Fortnite stops at 9 PM.”
I suspect it was a bit like in the movie Avatar when the General guy suddenly stops the neural link.
What I took from the whole experience was that I have to pay the piper somewhere.
2 hours of the boys engaged in Fortnite got my wife and I time to chat.
But when FamilyZone kicked Hamish out… There was a heavy price to pay.
This is like most aspects of life…
There is no free lunch.
In General Practice, I have to do the work somewhere.
In the context of the exams, if I don’t do the work, or don’t do the right work, or don’t have the right approach, or even not have the right support…
I end up hoping I will pass my exams.
Have those in place… I am confident I am ready to pass and become a fully qualified GP.
Of course, as in life, there are no guarantees, but if you are looking for a better way to get your FRACGP, then head to https://graduatemedicine.com/gpea now to find out more.
And, if you have boys on Fortnite, and want a way to control their usage… then I suggest you check out Family zone.
Even if it induces Fortnite withdrawal syndrome, at least you have a way of preventing 14-hour binge gaming sessions...
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